I am spending my morning watching this sex trade documentary. Ladies, this has to stop. Pimps only have a place because the women allow it. Stop allowing it. As I watched this documentary, I realized how out of hand things are now. The show starts by featuring pimps and low level prostitutes. These girls that are street walkers who are selling themselves for $20 to $100 dollars. They then give 100% of their earnings to a pimp.
Ladies, ladies, ladies, no woman needs a pimp. A Pimp is offering to manage and protect the ladies. Then he takes their money and distributes it to himself. Lets not dirty this up by sugar coating. A pimp is a lazy person who sees an opportunity to control. That is all this is. Ladies, if you are out there reading this, you do NOT need a “manager” to “manage” your finances. You do NOT need a manager to manage your time, you do NOT need a manager to offer fake promised of protection. If you are in the adult entertainment industry, there are very few “safe” things in the first place, and NO ONE can protect anyone. That is a fact. In my time in this business, I have dealt with my fair share of “pimps” wanting to control me or my money. It has never happened, it never will. They refer to women like me as “renegade” because we don’t submit to their control and know that we can do everything they can do for us ourselves. Ladies, if you are caught up in that, and you see this blog, PLEASE know that staying in that life is completely YOUR choice. The threats to your family, your friends, your loved ones, while scary, they are just used to control. A Pimp won’t spend his time finding you, they don’t spend their time going after your family. A pimp needs numbers, if they lose a girl, they have to replace them quickly to keep up the numbers. They are more concerned with finding another victim to take your place then trying to get back a lady that knows the score and will take time, money and energy to try to find only to wind up with a “problem” girl. That does not mean leave them and then stay in your common area’s. That means LEAVE THEM AND THAT AREA. Get OUT, completely. Get on a bus and get to a different location, and not the town next door either. A different state, a different place completely. Be smart about it. Pimps are dangerous, they abuse, physically, mentally and emotionally. They are not there to “help” you out in any way. They ROB you and your future. When you are too old to work or too damages to work they will get rid of you and you’ll still be in the same position you were when these “pimps” found you, having nothing and with no direction.
The fact that any lady would fall for this or agree to these arrangements saddens and shocks me to my core. I have heard the whole “pimps and ho’s are cut from the same cloth” speech so many times it makes me sick. If you need someone to control your time and money find a different job. The adult industry is not for you. You are part of the problem if you are that type of lady. We need to fix some of this mess from within. We can’t do that if these types of ladies are out there. Supply and demand, Pimps are unnecessary evils. The demand is something that women supply, not men, not pimps. If you want to give your money to some guy for no reason please don’t do it in this area of life. Ultimately these ladies create these horrible environments that lead to trafficking and the corruption in the industry.
I watched this show and listened to these “pimps” discuss renegades. The show discussed how scared of these renegades these guys are. That is true, and rightfully so. We put them out of business. We take away their power. These pimps state they want us murdered and hope we are. Of course they do! Why wouldn’t they?
We decide when we work and who we see and under what circumstances we see the clients. We keep 100% of our earnings and distribute them to no one. We do our own advertising and we control our own image and how it is used. Ultimately it is us controlling our own fate and destiny and our own careers. The promises of their protection are phony. Once those doors close, it is you and the client. That is it. How is anyone protecting you from the outside? They can’t and they are not. Ladies we control that too. We do our own screening of clients and we do what we can to keep ourselves safe since we are the ones in those situations. Don’t ever be taken in with lies of protection from someone who will not ever be there to do just that.
I can not tell you how much these documentaries do not cover. These are so incomplete and not at all helpful to anyone in these situations. These so called documentaries do not inform from a real perspective. They found two pimps, that’s great, these pimps talk about how they run the girls. This is not news, we already know how they do it. Why not talk about how and who they target? We know what they do once they “have” a girl. Tell the world “how” they get the girl. Show how they “sell” these girls into this idea. I saw none of their “girls” on this show, talk to them and listen to the brainwashing that comes out of their mouths. Look at how they live. They wear what this guy tells them to, they go where the guy tells them to, they come “home” when this guy allows them too. They eat and sleep as “allowed” by this guy. They have no life. They are robots. And the sad thing is, these girls are grateful for this type of slavery and treatment. Brainwashed!
I plan on taking this documentary apart. So we shall call this installment Part 1.
There are so many aspects I want to cover about this.